Getting Married And Having To Plan The Wedding Alone And On A Thrifty Budget! Any Tips?

I'm removing tied together in about dual years, though we wish to be entirely rebuilt for my marriage, when we get here. . . we know which to select the skirt (of course) as well as the flowers, the colors, the cake. . though we know of no devise or to obtain. . . we attempted to demeanour up what contingency be finished online, though sites have been the small confused. . . Does any one have any recommendation for me? That would be really appreciated. :)

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  • Kristen C
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 00:26 | #1

    Engagement Ring and Wedding Ring= Gold? White Gold? Platinum?
    Wedding Announcements = Pass them out to Relatives and Friends. This isn’t a Wedding Invitation, just an Announcement. You could also include the scheduled wedding date. This is called “Save the Date”
    Ceremony Location = Decide if you want Catholic Church, Christian Church or just have it some where else. Beach, Home, Park, etc… Make sure to reserve at least 11months before the Wedding.
    Reception/Venue = Decide where you want the Reception to take place. Where are all your guests going after the Ceremony? Your home to partay? To a Saloon? To a Restaurant? To a Hotel? To a golf course? They all rent out to party’s, so keep it in mind. You also want to reserve 11months or so before the Wedding to ensure that you do have this covered with out being denied “There aren’t enough space for you party”
    Officiant = (If the Church or Chapel or where ever you are having it doesnt provide one)
    Decide who will be your Maid of Honor?
    Who will be the Best Man?
    Who will be the Flower Girls?
    Who will be the Ring Bearer?
    Who will be in the Line up with you? Meaning, Brides Maids.. and Grooms means…
    What kind of Wedding Theme you’d like?
    What colors will be your Wedding Colors?
    Reserve a Florist to make your bouquet as well as your party girls
    Look for Wedding Photographer and Videographer, check their porfolios to ensure you like their work.
    Cake tasing
    Catering tasting
    Dress fitting… the list goes on and on…
    You could also turn to friends and family for financial support.
    You can ask…
    Your Parents if they can get the Reception Hall for you
    Your Aunts/Uncles if they can get the Center pieces for you, the video and photo for you.
    Any thing you need help on… Look for assistance. I am not an expert, but I am also planning my own Wedding =)
    I am getting Married July 2nd 2010
    It will be held at a Golf Course. They provide
    Ceremony Area (Waterfall background)
    Reception Area
    Food Catering
    Cake (we just need to get our own Cake Topper)
    Champagne for Wedding Toast
    Dance Floor
    (We have to get our own Officiant and DJ for the Ceremony and Reception)
    I wish us both the best of luck.. =)

  • ♥Mrs. M 2 B♥ July 2, 2010
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 00:32 | #2

    try http://www.weddingsday.co.uk. this website is really helpful it has a budget calculator and guest lsit manager as well as hints and tips on how to have a budget wedding.
    the maint things you need are:
    a date
    venue either church and reception or just one venue if your having a civil ceremony
    a theme and colours
    choose your wedding party e.g. best man etc
    the earlier you start putting your guest list together the easier it will be when the time comes to get invites and getting quotes on things like chair covers etc.
    you need to start looking for a dress
    flowers
    cake
    wedding cars
    honeymoon
    hotel to stay in on the night of your wedding
    decorations for your reception e.g chair covers and table decorations
    The little thins you need are:
    wedding lingerie
    shoes for you and your bridesmaids
    jewelry for you and your bridesmaids
    hair stylist for you and your bridesmaids
    gifts for the wedding party
    a ring holder
    toasting glasses for you and him
    guest book
    a wedding gift list

  • **Kesha*
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 00:51 | #3

    Get a Wedding book @ Borders that has pockets and checklists of things you’ll need. Also Michale’s has a amazing wedding section for do it yourself. Let me put it this way, for 50 invitations i had made through a local bridal store for my wedding was $556.00. I planned a 50th wedding anniversary and used printable wedding invitations from Michale’s for $40.00 and they came out just as good as the custom ones!! Also buying things on websites can save you alot of money because most sites have the same things but some cheaper so you can easily find the cheapest prices! Hope this helps.

  • Shelby
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 01:15 | #4

    You already know to get the venue . Go somewhere that they know you . Like if you go to church see if they can supply the place on a low cost since you know them. If not then try somewhere inexpensive like maybe an outside wedding at a lake.
    Dress- Look for specials on wedding dresses. it happens everywhere . When that happens, jump on it. you could always get it altered when the day gets closer.
    See if the parents will help fund some of the things like the cake or photographer. If no one can help then there are special offers for everything. You just have to keep your eyes peeled.

  • bubbleso
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 01:19 | #5

    you can get alot of stuff on craigslist that people have never used or used once and can be used again also used or never worn wedding dresses alot cheaper ebay is a good option also for flowers you can make your own invites and it helps if you find a place that you can have the ceremony and reception at the same place you need to find an officiant to perform the ceremony and find out about requirements

  • thedream
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 01:20 | #6

    i’m having a cocktail reception. it’s becoming more popular now for people who just really want to have a great party and don’t care about formality. it’s going to last four hours and we will have an open bar and heavy hor douvres. we’re having it on a friday night as well and this can save money also if you have the wedding on an off day. my two favorite websites are weddingwire.com and theknot.com both have great planning tools and it’s free to sign up. congrats!

  • Laura
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 02:02 | #7

    Hi,
    For Photographer & Dj go to Surround Sound DJ site & Studio 2000 site
    Thank You

  • Surround Sound Dj
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 02:12 | #8

    As for your brides maids dresses or flower girl dresses you should look at Flower Girl Princess on line. There are alot of Flower girl online but FGP is very reasonable and has alot of stock. Please check it out

  • hockeygu
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 02:47 | #9

    You need to register at theknot.com they have everything you need there, from a checklist to a budget

  • MikesEve
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 03:16 | #10

    Try theknot.com it is very helpful

  • kharb23
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 03:29 | #11

    why are you planning this alone, is your SO not the organised type??
    why not ask someone to be a maid of honour, that way you will have someone to help you make these decisions. and delegate to if you havent got the time etc.
    things you need to organise asap are:
    choose the date!!!
    venue, church and reception
    wedding cars
    dress
    choose bridesmaids, MOH, best man and groomsmen
    colours
    flowers
    table decorations
    cake
    photogropher
    invitations (not urgent but if you can get them bought early they can be stored!)
    look for a honeymoon
    the main tip i could give you is wherever possible do things yourself, make invites/table decorations/ favours etc, that will save a lot of money, get someone crafty to make a cake for you, maybe even create your own bouquets for bridesmaids? this can be easily done by buying seperate flowers and foliage and getting to work! then bind them with ribbon matching your bridesmaids colours
    as for the dresses you can save there too! look on http://www.lightinthebox.com there is a whole heap of wedding and bridesmaid dresses custom made to fit your measurements and very cheap! i am spoilt and am havign 2 wedding dresses (one for actual wedding day and one for meal day after) and bought my second one from this site, the quality is amazing and it only cost me £89! my mum also bought her dress for my wedding from this site and cost her £100 and is beautiful, fits like a glove!
    i wish you all the luck in the world and hope it tours out to be everything you wished for! having 2 years to plan is perfect as it gives you time to get everything done without stressing out!

  • MRS*K*2B
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 03:45 | #12

    To save cash keep the wedding small, just close friends and family members. Dinner is expensive so maybe opt for a buffet style meal instead or if you’re doing it at a hotel usually they have dinner specials. Research hotels in your area online, usually they have a wedding section on their website. Maybe consider having the ceremony and reception be one thing. Instead of booking two places you can get one room. For example, for my wedding when people arrive they’ll just mingle with each other and the groom and starting cocktail hour while I’m doing my finishing touches. Then when I come in we’ll exchange our vows in front of everyone, mingle some more, dance, have dinner, whatever, and leave for our honeymoon. We’re going to make a play-list on an ipod and hook it up to surround sound speakers. It’ll be cheaper than booking a dj or band and we’ll get to have all our favorite songs! We’re also not having a wedding party but I understand that lots of people don’t like that idea for themselves. Alcohol is another expensive factor. Maybe consider not serving any or just wine, beer, and champagne for the toasts. However, like I mentioned before, if you check out the hotels websites they usually have great wedding packages. Go to JoAnn fabrics or something and get inspired! Make your own table clothes and decorations. You will probably find some great deals on Craigslist and ebay for decorations and stuff too! You can also use Craigslist to find a photographer or videographer. Also, subscribe to TheKnot.com … I get their emails regularly and they always have helpful advice! Congrats and good luck!

  • alaska grown.
    Oct 26th, 2009 at 04:15 | #13

    Since you have a tight budget – choose a Friday or Sunday for your date, this alone will save at least 10% for your reception hall. Also, LIMIT the guest list which, believe me, is easier said than done! For invitations check out Michaels, Walmart or Target and print them yourself. I actually found mine on sale for $6.00 for a box of 50 invites and RSVP’s. You can also eliminate favors, or keep them under $1.50/person. Another option is to do the little photo frames which can be found starting at $1.00 each. With the photo frames you can make it a ‘couples’ favor which will also act as their place card holder. As for centerpieces, stay away from floral arrangements as they will be pricey. Some venues will supply you with centerpieces also. Take advantage of free offers from all the vendors, and enlist some family and friends for as much DIY stuff you can. Here is a rundown of things to do:
    decide on budget
    pick a date
    pick bridal party
    find ceremony location
    find reception location
    find officiant (if not a member of a church, or not being performed at a church)
    cake
    photographer
    DJ
    florist (don’t forget corsages & boutinerres for parents, etc. in your budget)
    centerpieces
    favors (can be cut for budget purposes)
    place cards
    invitations
    programs (can be cut for budget purposes)
    card holder (for at reception)
    guest book / frame
    your dress, jewelry, garter belts, make up, hair, shoes, undergarments, veil
    grooms tux
    wedding bands
    bridal party gifts
    rehearsal dinner
    marriage license
    Hope this helps a little bit! Good Luck!

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